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AVP-Nebraska is making a difference in lives in our community!
Recently AVP-Nebraska was featured by the Nebraska News Service. Written by Brandon Thomas, the story “Alternatives to Violence Project helps local inmates find different path,” shares the impact of AVP on the lives of two local men.
While in prison in 2017, Kevin Simnick saw a flier in the work-release office for a group that wanted to talk about reducing violence. Out of prison on parole since February, he’s seen a change since he started talking with the Alternatives to Violence Project.
The Project, known as AVP, is a volunteer based, not-for-profit organization dedicated to reducing violence in society. Here in Lincoln, the program uses workshops that inmates are guided to as suggested by the prison administrators.
Meetings occur at the Quaker meeting house in Lincoln once a month.
“My boss has seen me turn into a better person, and I credit that to AVP,” Simnick said.
To read the full story, visit https://unl.newsnebraska.net/?p=70966
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Approximately 1.3 million women and 835,000 men are physically assaulted by an intimate partner annually in the United States (1).
Unfortunately, many people are unaware of the danger they face or even that they may be in an abusive situation. According to Nebraska Statutes § 28-323:
- A person commits the offense of domestic assault in the third degree if he or she:
- Intentionally and knowingly causes bodily injury to his or her intimate partner;
- Threatens an intimate partner with imminent bodily injury; or
- Threatens an intimate partner in a menacing manner
- A person commits the offense of domestic assault in the second degree if he or she intentionally and knowingly causes bodily injury to his or her intimate partner with a dangerous instrument.
- A person commits the offense of domestic assault in the first degree if he or she intentionally and knowingly causes serious bodily injury to his or her intimate partner. . . . . . . . .
- For purposes of this section, intimate partner means a spouse; a former spouse; persons who have a child in common whether or not they have been married or lived together at any time; and persons who are or were involved in a dating relationship. For purposes of this subsection, dating relationship means frequent, intimate associations primarily characterized by the expectation of affectional or sexual involvement, but does not include a casual relationship or an ordinary association between persons in a business or social context.
Indicators of an Abusive Relationship
These are red flags that can serve as indicators of an abusive relationship.
- An abuser might…
- Abuse alcohol or other drugs
- Have a history of trouble with the law and / or fights
- Refuse to work or go to school
- Abuse siblings or pets
- Put down people and / or call names excessively
- Always be angry with someone or something
- Move too fast, too soon in a relationship
- Try to isolate you from your friends and family
- Nag or force sexual encounters
- Cheat on you
- Be physically rough (restraining, pushing, and pulling)
- Take your money (or other ways of taking advantage)
- Accuse you of being flirtatious
- Refuse to listen to your opinions
- Ignore you or give you silent treatment
- Blame all arguments and problems on you
- Have extreme mood swings
- Tell you to shut up, call you fat, stupid or dumb
If you are being abused you might…
- Feel afraid to break up
- Feel tied down
- Feel afraid to make decisions
- Tell yourself that if you just try harder it will be OK
- Find yourself crying a lot, being depressed or unhappy
- Find yourself worrying or obsessing about how to please your partner
- Find the physical or emotional abuse slowly getting worse
Visit the ATV (Colorado) “Recognize Abuse” (http://www.alternativestoviolence.org/Pages/RecognizeAbuse.php) site for more information on recognizing the signs of abuse.
(1) Patricia Tjaden & Nancy Thoennes, U.S. Dep’t of Just., NCJ 183781, Full Report of the Prevalence, Incidence, and Consequences of Intimate Partner Violence Against Women: Findings from the National Violence Against Women Survey, at iv (2000), available at http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/nij/pubs-sum/183781.htm
This personal testimony by Jimmie Martinez is eloquent and powerful.
Roger Kluck of Seattle, and former AVP/USA President, was doing a workshop at the Tacoma Recovery Cafe when Jimmie, who was next door , heard that an AVP workshop was underway. Jimmie had to come in share his experience discovering AVP in a New Jersey SuperMax in 1995. Roger visited with Jimmie and filmed his testimony.
Writing at CNNMoney on April 18, 2018, Lydia DePrillis writes the critical safety net of disability benefits and Medicaid coverage that millions of people lose every year when they are released from prison.
For Lori Stone, getting out of prison has always been a little nerve-racking.
She’s been in and out of jail since she was 18. Every time she’s been released, she’s lost her disability benefits and her Medicaid coverage. That meant she couldn’t afford her rent or her medication for her bipolar disorder until she was able to re-enroll, which could take weeks or months — even if she went to all her appointments on time.
“That would put me into a bad spell of being depressed, and my moods would be bad,” says Stone, 37, over the phone from the Douglas County Jail in Omaha, Nebraska. “And then I would end up doing something stupid like shoplifting to get alcohol. It’s just a vicious cycle.”
That critical gap in safety net programs, which has set Stone up for failure again and again, is a harsh reality for millions of people released from prison every year — and one that counties are now trying to get fixed. . . .
To read the full article, The high cost of taking away prisoners’ Medicaid coverage
“12 Angry Jurors” is the latest production from Southeast Community College’s theater program with the curtain opening Friday, Sept. 8 and Saturday Sept. 9 at 7:30 p.m. in the auditorium at the Jack. J. Huck Continuing Education Center.
The production is a courtroom drama based on the play “12 Angry Men,” which later became a well-known film in 1957 starring Henry Fonda. Changing the name to “Jurors” allows women and men to fit the roles.
The plot is 12 jurors, all very different, must decide the fate of a 19-year-old man on trial for allegedly stabbing his father to death. The play examines the roles of juries in our society and how a group of strangers must come together to decide the fate of a stranger. The play and its themes transcends all political lines and deals with human nature.
The cast is a combination of 13 community members and SCC students and staff.
“This is contemporary, edgy and affects all of us, especially when it deals with pre-conceived ideas of people,” said Jon Gruett, SCC theater instructor. Gruett also said there will be a panel of legal professionals who will take part in a post-play question-and-answer session with the audience.
The play is part of a class at SCC called “Yes You Can be a Star!” where students not only get to be part of a production, but also be part of the stage crew.
Cost to attend the show is $10 for general admission and $5 for students. Cash and checks only. Both performances are at 7:30 p.m.
O.J. Simpson Credits Alternatives to Violence Project training to helping him deal with conflict while in Lovelock Correctional Facility
On Thursday, July 20, 2017, after 9 years of incarceration for armed robbery, O.J. Simpson sat in on his Parole hearing. During the hearing he stated the programs and steps he took to rehabilitate saying:
“I took two courses (Basic & Advanced) that I guess you guys don’t give much credit to. It’s called Alternatives to Violence. It’s the most important course anyone in this prison could take as it teaches you to solve conflict through conversation.”
OJ Simpson is one of thousands of persons who have been incarcerated that have benefited from these trainings.
To see comments from participants in AVP/NE workshops about the impact of AVP in their lives, see the post category, What I Learned from AVP